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Hello Monday ... Hello Gratiude



It's been a long time since I have done one of my favorite types of post.

Hello Monday - Hello Gratitude

Where I simply take the time to reflect back over the last week
(this time it's a bit of catch up, so it's a few weeks)
and 
contemplate what 

I'm Grateful for.

I know for me
unless I take the time to practice 

Intentional Gratitude

I can too easily 
slip into thinking about 
what I need to do
as well as 
 my worries and fears and frustrations.

It's so important for me to take a step back
and 
refocus
on all that
 I am Grateful For!




I have over the last couple of months retuned 
to my morning rituals of

Coffee, Candles and Gratitude
before sunrise.


I have also added in an
 essential oil diffuser
which has been a game changer 
when I was going through the very rough waters.
Essentials oils 
really do live up to their reputation.


For me  starting my mornings setting my focus on the 
beauty in my life
has helped improve the quality of my days.




And it can be as easy as doing a
 beautiful candle centerpiece.




Even a few 
flowers
 can be a reminder of the 
beauty in the world!




I have also been in the process of
taking back my house and gardens
from the neglect they have endured the past months.

One of my favorite projects
as far as impact
adding macrame garlands from 
to my Costco umbrella.




Before I sewed them on by hand
I Scotch Gaurded them to s



A much simpler garden project
was fluffing our front yard terrace.

This delightful fringed umbrella is also from
Target's Opal House Collection
as is my new bamboo table.




As I get better
I am once again able to happily attend events.

Like the one at one of my favorite stores in 

They had the lovely Kirsten 
the designer and owner of 
She designed my fabulous pants here and in the opening shot.
They are her 'Hepburn Pants'
and embrace a fabulous beachy vibe!




Raven and Lily also do a wide range of accessories as well!
Each purchase from this company
"Creates fair trade jobs and funds micro loan programs for
artisan women all over the world".




I was also fortunate to celebrate this gorgeous woman turning 60!
Doesn't Mary from 
@livvivid on Instagram
make turning 60 aspirational!
As well as wearing the 
Birthday Crown 
I designed for her
with such beauty and grace!




Her party was another one for the memory books
done by none other than the fabulous Andrea of the




How stunning is this homemade cake that Andrea 
baked, designed 
and 
found the most show stopping candles for!!




This week I am 
Grateful To ...

~ 
~ do a family birthday party for my youngest son Hunter who turns 
22 on Wednesday!
My darling daughter is coming up to help cook!


~ go to Borrego Springs for Memorial Day Weekend with Jeff!
We are planning a romantic desert getaway!


~ go to our marriage therapy tonight
(after which we always reward ourselves by doing something fun afterwards!)



~

Yesterday I
 pulled and styled all of my outfits for this week
and 
organized all of my closets.


As much as I love clothes
I have been finding myself 
in my work out wear all day long!
And a mess of clothes on my floor.


Because when I was getting home from working out
I would just go into getting things done mode
then it just seemed like ...
"why bother getting dressed this late in the day "...
which  ending up always making me feel icky.
And I am looking for every way to feel good about myself these days!


So this week I have invested in my week
by styling outfits 
that I am happy and excited to wear!


I'll let you know next week how it worked out.


~

As I see it
life can be hard somedays
and
maybe all of the little pieces like ...


Creating Beauty

Doing Things For Others

Working on Relationships

Self Care

and
 especially
Gratitude


can bring more 
peace and calm
in the everyday.




As always my friends

I wish you love and joy
as you style your life








hello Monday ... hello gratitude ...

 Hello Monday... hello to so much gratitude.
Hello to a wonderfrul weekend with my husband...
finding a balance between getting things done...
and still having time for fun.. 
and finding new destinations.

 Hello gratitude ... for celebrating our last high school homecoming as parents...
 with some great pictures...
So very grateful for Hunter's girlfriend and his great group of friends...
makes a momma's heart happy...
to know her boy is so well loved and supported.

 Hello to such gratitude for this guy...
and what a wonderful young man he is becoming...
I am one proud mother.

 Hello to the first lemons from my garden...
As it approaches November here in SoCal...
we are still hitting 80 degrees almost everyday...

 So even though I long for fall weather ...
I am trying to cherish this perfect weather in the garden.

 Hello to a grateful heart...
for the privlege of spending time with both 
old friends and new.

 Hello to getting ready for our 
pre-trick or treat gathering...
of old neighbors and new.

Hello Monday...
hello to time in the studio this week...
Working some old and new designs...

Hello to getting everything in order...
so we can find time to take this baby of ours out on a road trip....
With these  beautiful cooling temperatures  and perfect light...
I am hearing the siren song...
of an open road.


As always dear friends

I wish you love and joy
as you style your life









... hello Monday ... hello gratitude ...

 Hello Monday...
Hello gratitude ...
for this
wonderfully supportive blogging community.
I was so moved by all of the loving comments...

 Hello Monday...
and gratitude for the privilege of having
the beautiful Heather from StyleMindChic...
and her husband and sister..
over for brunch this weekend.

Such great friendships can come from this blogging world...
Even though Heather and I met for the first time in person...
it felt as though we had been friends for ages already.
I always believe...

it is truly the connections that come out of blogging...
that are
 the truest gift.

 Hello Monday...
and
 gratitude for routine...
and structure...
and still having ...

 this wonderful young man at home..
Senior year seems to be going so fast.

 Here's to 
celebrating milestones along the way!

 Hello to much gratitude for
 the beauty and coziness of fall...

 Hello to making invitations today...
for our 
14th annual Pre-Trick or Treat Gathering...
It feels good to be back.

 Hello gratitude and excitement for a new collection in the works...
and
 the beauty and promise of a brand new week!


as always dear  friends

I wish you love and joy
as you style your life.








.... hello Monday .... hello Gratitude ....

Hello Monday.... hello gratitude...
and hello to writing this weekly post... which always lifts my mood.
It's ironic really how these posts came to be...
and how powerful they have been for me.

I have realized...
the more gratitude I have...
the better my life has become...
on so many levels.

Focusing on gratitude as least for a few hours each week...
has become a way for me to retrain my brain...
to focus on the good that is my life...
instead of being so often caught up in the minutia of everyday frustrations.

As the last leg of summer presents itself...
I am forced by this post...
to reflect on the good that is my life.

Taking the time to refocus on this good...
has been this summer's best accomplishments.

I have tried to slow down...
and be grateful for the beauty that is in my life...
Focusing on the good   I have in my life...
 means less time for spirals down the rabbit holes of anxiety and depression.

But I can see...
Just like regular physical workouts...
this will need to be a regular practice...
not a  summer box that I checked off and move on from.

I must make gratitude...
a daily practice in my life..
every season.

I am ever so grateful again this week...
not only again for great health care...
but the gorgeous aesthetics where ours takes place...
and the healing comfort it brings.

We got the results of Hunter's MRI this week...
and it was the best we could have hoped for.
Only his kneecap was torn away with the waves impact...
which means no surgery and only 6 weeks of physical  therapy.

 Hello Monday...
and hello to gratitude to having time in the garden...
and seeing through the effects of the summer season.

Hello to being  grateful for having gotten pieces in my Primitives Collection
 listed in my shop.
Having my daughter Ellis's  help has made all the difference.

Hello gratitude for dinners out with my husband during the week...
and sunset strolls around our neighborhood lake...
When our kids were growing up...
we were bound by their schedules...
even in the summers.
As bitter sweet as their growing up and on has been...
a silver lining of this time in our life...
has been some spectacular summer sunset strolls.

To everything there is a season.

Hello to  my favorite time of the week...
Friday's at the beach for sunset cocktails...

and the time to savor the beauty 
that is summer from the Rooftop in Laguna Beach.

as always my friends

I wish you love and joy
as you style a life full of gratitude.