It's that time of year again
when I look back at what I've worn
over the year.
I have to say
I have been back and forth
as to if I even wanted to do it this year.
For me it was a year
filled with personal loss
on different levels
but
none more than losing my dad.
But I don't think ignoring the year
will help heal my heart
and
after all
I am still standing.
Ready to take on the
New Year
with optimism
and
Gratitude.
But I also think there is personal power
in
acknowledging
life's storms.
Loosing my Dad in September
was so hard.
Because of Covid
I was only able to see him
one time during his two months in ICU.
He had gone into the hospital
for what was supposed to be a simple surgery
in July.
Complications arose
he ended up in ICU a few days later.
From there it was weeks and weeks
of a roller coaster of expectations
of him surviving.
It got to a point he wanted to be able to die
knowing he would never recover
to any quality of life.
he got to a point he was more gone
than here.
Not even able to breathe on his own.
On September 3rd
my brother, Jeff and I
were allowed to be at his bedside
as they took him off the ventilator
and
he was allowed to die a peaceful death
with dignity.
2020 has been a year of hardship and loss for so many.
and
we must all find ways
to go on.
Learning how to balance our grief
with the intentions of
doing good where we can.
Finding and acknowledging
all the beauty and goodness
that there is in life.
For me
I find solace and calm
in pulling together outfits
that I am happy to wear.
I love the creative process
I love having something
that I can control.
Dressing in an 'outfit'
reminds me of my mother
who ingrained the concept of
'an outfit' into me.
Wearing an outfit I love
makes my heart happy.
And that makes me more able
to give to others.
For me
Creative Personal Style
Confirms My Soul
My love of
accessories and clothes
is part of who I am.
I can still remember what I wore in kindergarten.
I share that love here
in the hopes
that if you share the same love
maybe
I can inspire your own creativity
and
passion.
Whether it's clothes or cooking
or a myriad of other creative outlets
creativity
is so important to
living a joyous life!
From here I offer some of my favorite outfits
form 2020.
Reminding myself
there were good moments
in the midst of the heartbreaking ones.
I always love elevating
basic pieces
by combining them
and
finishing with a wonderful dose of
Coordinating Accessories.
Here it's an interplay with
straws and shells.
A happy happy day at Disneyland
last February!
Jeff and I have
thrived as a couple
through so many trying times this past year.
I am so thankful we worked so hard
the last few years
rebuilding such
a strong marriage.
Our marriage continues to
Thrive
as a true partnership.
Jeff is one of the very best parts
of my life.
One of my very favorite outfits
of 2020.
We took it out to the beach for pictures
the whole walk
felt like magic!
My favorite bag of 2020
brought
my big loves of
Pearls and Basketry
together!
I decided to make myself get dressed
for cocktails outside!
I did this outfit around my
personally designed
shell and pearl earrings!
They are part of my newest Collection
that I am in the works of launching soon!
The month of May
still dressing for home.
'Glamming Up'
sweats with
two more of my designs
Turban and Statement Earrings!
2020 sure had me refining
Cozy Comfortable
with a big dose of
Statement Accessories
for
Instant At Home Glam!
June had me pulling out my caftan and turban
for an easy at home
Glam Look
with once again the instant infusion of
Statement Accessories!
Jeff and I were so happy
about the new terrace
we put in 2019.
Never even knowing how much
we would use it in 2020.
Plenty of neighborhood sunset walks.
Paired this off the shoulder denim dress from
with some of my favorite
Western Accessories!
I definitely enjoyed getting dressed for even
takeout!
Walks on the beach
are always
a balm to my soul.
Yep.
More dressing for home.
Upgrading two basic pieces
to
'an outfit'
with plenty of
Statement Accessories!
Our accessory du Jour
for 2020.
I have quite the collection
but this is my favorite
go with everything
well fitting
and
most importantly
easy to breathe
from the lovely
from the UK
Saturday summer nights
at home.
I have to say
our gardens have never looked better!
Certainly one of the many
Silver Linings of 2020.
Definitely enjoyed dressing up for
Take Out
and a
Photo Shoot
Summer Sunset Strolls
on the beach
Never again will I take the beach for granted
after the closings for months here in California.
Still got out for
photoshoots!
This fabulous dress is another from
Wearing an outfit I love
to cheer myself.
It works.
I highly recommend!
Beach rides with my love.
We even got a weekend away at the
brand new and fabulous
located in Temecula!
I shared all about it HERE
With only five cottages
it felt entirely safe
during this Covid times.
We were lucky enough to catch lots of
spectacular sunsets.
One thing about difficult times
they always have me searching hard for
all the beauty
and
silver linings I can find.
There were also times
hiding under a big hat felt ideal.
But each time I got up again.
And outfits that I loved
Helped
Every Single Time
That concludes my
2020 Recap.
As hard of a year as it was
I still have ever so much to be
Grateful
for.
Here's to
greeting the
New Year
with
strength, courage
and
Gratitude
for every
Silver Lining
we can find!
Wishing each and everyone of you
a
New Year
full of blessings!
As always my friends
I wish you Love and Joy
as you
Style Your Life
