Hello Monday ... Hello Holiday Gratitude ...

Today I am grateful for 

clothes that comfort

and 

embrace

like a good safe hug.

Clothes that can give you that extra boost

when you need it most

Clothes that can make getting out of bed

and

 out into the world

a reality

even when your heart breaks.

I mentioned last week 

I have had an emotional time of late.

I have thought long and hard

whether I would mention why...

but this is a space that is mine

and 

where I am honest 

about things of the heart.

My oldest son has decided at this time in his life

he doesn't want to be a part of our family.

Having a child choosing to estrange themselves 

form your family

brings a plethora

of complicated emotions

even if the writing has been on the wall.

Having this happen at the holidays

further complicates the emotions

Don't get me wrong

as much as my heart is broken

I know there are much worse holiday scenarios.

It was the holiday season many, many years ago

that my sister died.

I hope in my heart of hearts

my son won't always feel this way.

Ironically I made the same choice at his age.

Only to later realize the importance 

and privilege of family.

Right now

it is what it is.
I must respect his decision.

I send him  much love and prayers

and 

I will always be here for him.

I also know

sometimes 

when your heart breaks open

you can  also see the true beauty

in your life

with more clarity of heart.

So this week even with a very tender heart

it is full of gratitude

especially for my Dad's health

for a lovely time spent with family  this Thanksgiving.

My heart is grateful for my daughter

and 

younger son

and 

the privilege of spending time with them.

I am so grateful that my husband and I are

close once again ... on the same side.

I am so  very grateful for our family.

My heart is full of family love

and 

so grateful for spending time with my girl

and 

counting the days until

she returns once again for the holidays.

I am grateful we found our tree

and

 that my favorite season 

is officially under way.

I am grateful for Christmas carols and the depth of emotion they can add 

at a moments notice.

I am grateful to find creative inspiration

in so many places!

I was inspired with this lovely bunting

in Old Town Orange

and 

can't wait to make some myself!

I am happy I have my holiday plantings done

and 

outside rooms decorated

I can't wait to share them!

I am grateful for quiet times and morning candlelight

Time to reflect

and

 count my blessing

with a grateful heart.

I am so very grateful for you  who stop by...

I am ever so grateful for this loving

supporting community

where we can honestly share

and be

Grateful.

as always my friends

I wish you love and joy

as you style your life

and 

count your blessings