tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7926693259891960139.post7985642931784117532..comments2024-03-22T10:44:19.390-07:00Comments on Tamera Beardsley: Picking Up The Pieces ... After A Marriage BetrayalTamera Beardsleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00855427513744644731noreply@blogger.comBlogger18125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7926693259891960139.post-23601756703356408452018-10-04T05:03:27.962-07:002018-10-04T05:03:27.962-07:00You are such an inspiring and wise woman! Divorce ...You are such an inspiring and wise woman! Divorce is never easy, but you must remember that you are strong and capable of getting through anything! You should just make one more step and everything will be fine again! You'll feel grateful for everything what happened with you. And even for divorce. Sounds ridiculous? But that's true, believe me...Elizabeth Kelleyhttp://www.divorce-explained.com/kansas/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7926693259891960139.post-31697738558661022222018-05-04T09:43:35.865-07:002018-05-04T09:43:35.865-07:00Sometimes I felt that my husband has been unfaithf...Sometimes I felt that my husband has been unfaithful to me, and that was destroying my trust on him. I thought damaged trust is difficult to repair, but now I think it’s not impossible for me to forgive, forget and start my life freshly with him to live a <a href="https://imperfectmomma.blog/2018/05/01/a-marriage-of-selflessness-free-downloadable-ebook" rel="nofollow">good life</a>!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13357194521806197364noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7926693259891960139.post-28878176392562140422018-03-22T20:41:01.140-07:002018-03-22T20:41:01.140-07:00Tamera - as always, I’m in awe of your ability to ...Tamera - as always, I’m in awe of your ability to share such a personal tribulation. You articulate so beautifully the ups and downs of coming to terms with a new reality and challenging process of rebuilding your marriage. Because of your story I’ve taken a hard look at my own marriage and a few changes have been made! Wishing you continued strength on this journey. xoMakemineaspritzerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10362562555047365040noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7926693259891960139.post-34686659096622053702018-03-11T10:22:10.293-07:002018-03-11T10:22:10.293-07:00Amazing story. I had a much less painful glitch in...Amazing story. I had a much less painful glitch in my marriage. Now my husband of 38 years and I have a fantastic relationship and like you the sex gets better and better. You just have to face all your stuff and take responsibility for what went wrong.Eva Maria Chapmanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05343401306342191953noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7926693259891960139.post-69152192645743926042018-02-12T07:04:04.971-08:002018-02-12T07:04:04.971-08:00Dear Tamera, What a shock to come to your blog and...Dear Tamera, What a shock to come to your blog and read the headline of betrayal. I have always looked to you for the most fabulous style and an attitude that is full of the joy of life. I understood that your husband was the one who was taking all those gorgeous photos and was therefore fully appreciating his partner in life. I now feel very upset for the grief and hurt that has been caused. BUT, in true Tamera style, you are coming through! Go slowly and gently so that you end up with more gain than loss.<br />Sending you love. Rx.Share my Gardenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08817611851604816123noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7926693259891960139.post-79409473066799475402018-02-11T01:17:28.401-08:002018-02-11T01:17:28.401-08:00I am also walking the path you are on, be gentle w...I am also walking the path you are on, be gentle with yourself. The fog is slowly lifting for me.<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7926693259891960139.post-19268034109532113592018-02-01T14:49:37.598-08:002018-02-01T14:49:37.598-08:00My God Tamera. You are SO strong and gracious. I&#...My God Tamera. You are SO strong and gracious. I'm, afraid to admit I don't think I could do this. I don't think I would be strong enough. I don't think I could be forgiving enough. I don't think I could forgive and not forget. I just don't think I would be as gracious and compassionate as you are. You are an amazing woman TameraVannessa@Luxuriahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13004543876391503184noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7926693259891960139.post-73033190595407280782018-01-29T18:13:42.119-08:002018-01-29T18:13:42.119-08:00That you've both been able to be so honest and...That you've both been able to be so honest and talk about ANYTHING and EVERYTHING, and he's opened up--so hard for men to do--is such a valuable thing and a good sign. It took time to get where you found yourselves two months ago, and it will take time to get things back to where you're trusting and not feeling vulnerable and shaky. If you both make one another a priority, it's amazing how many little things each day will once more become a solid foundation. xoxoxo, Brenda1010ParkPlacehttp://www.1010parkplace.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7926693259891960139.post-79993140454555473642018-01-29T05:57:46.399-08:002018-01-29T05:57:46.399-08:00Hugs and Kisses your way, it is thru our suffering...Hugs and Kisses your way, it is thru our suffering that we come to the truth of love and compassion for ourselves and others. <br /><br />MelissaMelissaleehealinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05439947551392124476noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7926693259891960139.post-78334575839985359562018-01-26T16:02:04.085-08:002018-01-26T16:02:04.085-08:00Tamera, you are strong and wise. It's so easy ...Tamera, you are strong and wise. It's so easy to walk away from a marrriage, which is why some take that route. It takes courage and "heart" work to fight for what you believe is valuable. The journey you're on is an investment that will engage every part of your being (as you're already experiencing). After you have endured the process, in the end, you and your husband will experience the most beautiful marriage, so much better than before. Blessings to you both. I smile and rejoice at what is to come. Anita Morrishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15760800480856922854noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7926693259891960139.post-70771961945693638482018-01-26T14:41:04.039-08:002018-01-26T14:41:04.039-08:00I love the way you work through things. I love rea...I love the way you work through things. I love reading your entries, looking at your clothes, and being inspired by you. I know this has been a crushing blow, but I like seeing the way you're rising.Beth M.noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7926693259891960139.post-11550381913027037982018-01-26T05:00:35.011-08:002018-01-26T05:00:35.011-08:00"I am working to become the very best version..."I am working to become the very best version of myself"...you repeat this many time in your posting.<br />it thought me provoking. Don't push yourself in that way. Have you ever allowed yourself "Im am what I am, I am OK"?....and I guess you are OK as your husband is. My advise would be, don't look to deep (without working on your situation) and cause a new problem. Forget and forgive what' s happened and enjoy together your future<br />Mumbaihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11371965577645396996noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7926693259891960139.post-32740276379792494822018-01-26T01:41:00.244-08:002018-01-26T01:41:00.244-08:00I am so pleased to read your husband is going to c...I am so pleased to read your husband is going to counselling with you, and that you are rediscovering your passion together. It can be done - I know from experience! You are very busy now, extra commitments, but you are very aware of self-care. My heart goes out to you, but so happy to see your beautiful face is a little more relaxed in these gorgeous pictures. xxxPatriciahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11685403215601517267noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7926693259891960139.post-17816840376641409952018-01-25T23:40:12.119-08:002018-01-25T23:40:12.119-08:00Tread carefully, Tamera. Concentrate on you.
Mu...Tread carefully, Tamera. Concentrate on you.<br />Much Love<br />Lizer PearlUnknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01495733342024394729noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7926693259891960139.post-73048868330593839182018-01-25T18:46:58.669-08:002018-01-25T18:46:58.669-08:00was heart broken to hear this part of your story, ...was heart broken to hear this part of your story, yet you continue to inspire me with your heart felt writing, your honesty, and your stunning outfits! You have a beautiful family and you have touched me with your journey and the reminder to self care! Thank you! Kathryn KAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15244192074854556830noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7926693259891960139.post-41666354889472533872018-01-25T18:07:59.997-08:002018-01-25T18:07:59.997-08:00YOU CAN DO THIS!
TIME IS A HEALING AGENT!!!!!!
YOU...YOU CAN DO THIS!<br />TIME IS A HEALING AGENT!!!!!!<br />YOU just need to have PASSIONS......A LIFE basically so you both have something to share come nightfall at the dinner table!<br />You have your FRIENDS,FAMILY, BLOG and JEWELS TO DESIGN........and THAT PILATES CLASS!<br />YOU are ONE LUCKY GAL as your HUSBAND likes to snap your photos!!!!<br />Not ALL HUSBANDS will do THAT!!!!!!<br />YOU live in Southern California..........NO SNOW NO REAL COLD weather.......you have a FAMILY!!!!YOU have a GARDEN and YOU have your FOLLOWERS............AND YOU HAVE A DAM GOOD SENSE OF STYLE!Plus, you are just minutes away from SCP!!!!!!!!<br />Suggestions.......just for FUN!<br />Pop into his work with LUNCH for him.......YOU MAKE IT!<br />HAVE A DELICIOUS DINNER awaiting his return on FRIDAY night instead of GOING OUT!!!!<br />Invite people over for dinner and Fun conversation........<br />Plan a VACATION TOGETHER!Could be a YEAR OUT......The planning is MORE FUN than the actual OUTING!<br />YOU TAKE PHOTOS of HIM ON DATE NIGHT!<br />There you go a few suggestions to toss a SPARK into the relationship..................<br />LAST one come SPRING sleep outside in your TEEPEE..........BE WILD!<br />HUGS..........DID you see the CREATOR of HILDIE on my BLOG?I think you may enjoy............especially the ORIGINAL drawing from 1983!!!!!!!!!!!XOXOXOXOX<br />P.S.YES WE ARE GOOD!!!!!La Contessahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01682902106545680159noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7926693259891960139.post-49244504516178595512018-01-25T16:19:31.295-08:002018-01-25T16:19:31.295-08:00Dear Tamara, I too had a earth shattering up close...Dear Tamara, I too had a earth shattering up close encounter with infidelity just before my 20th wedding anniversary. I thought I had an unshakable relationship with my husband but for many of the reasons you relate, I found we were not invisible. As in your case, it shook me to the fiber of my being. We too, through counseling, prayer and soul to soul, long reaching conversations were able to heal 100%. We were gifted 10 more years with a love that deepened and matured with sprinkles of the passion we knew in our 20's. Sadly, my husband died unexpectedly 4 years ago, I thank GOD for the work He completed in both of us, I look fondly now on a love much appreciated. I pray you and your husband much love and commitment to your romance, with Many years more.KarenDianeArabellahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09779814432392449610noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7926693259891960139.post-86869940924907640642018-01-25T15:59:35.932-08:002018-01-25T15:59:35.932-08:00You are an amazingly strong and insightful person!...You are an amazingly strong and insightful person! I hope you encounter many more miracles on the road to recovery!Jennifer Livelyhttp://lively.lifenoreply@blogger.com