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I've followed many blogs but have never found one that fits ( being a woman of a certain age) I do like fashion but I care more about what's inside a person. By the way you are beautiful inside and out. I have 3 daughters and 8 granddaughters and I want them to value who they are. Your words are a great path to loving oneself and opening yourself to loving others with the same kindness. Thank you again - can't wait to read more. Julie's Arthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00711245824575860939noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7926693259891960139.post-25980670728664999322015-02-13T07:59:40.891-08:002015-02-13T07:59:40.891-08:00Sandra thank you for your heartfelt comment. I do...Sandra thank you for your heartfelt comment. I don't feel comfortable on advising on sharing personal stories. But I can say … doing so for me changed my life from feeling irrelevant and left behind when my children moved on with their lives … into I a woman who is revitalized, hopeful with a heart full of gratitude for the beauty in the world.<br /><br />When I share personal stories … I do do when I know it to be my truth and ask myself …do I stand behind this whether no one comments … or even worse it brings out trolls. When I can say yes to both I push publish. <br /><br />I think many times it is in life's rough patches that we truly connect … and find out we are not alone in dealing with the hardships that inevitably come everyones way. I am also learning from those who have traveled rough paths! If you do choose to share your story … let me know … I would love to read my dear!<br /><br />Enjoy your trip to Napa … be sure to check out the hat shop! Perhaps on your return we can meet for coffee! <br /><br />Congratulations on your recovery from your surgery! Tamera Beardsleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00855427513744644731noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7926693259891960139.post-9281749431064433082015-02-12T10:46:44.999-08:002015-02-12T10:46:44.999-08:00Your writing today so touched me. I've been aw...Your writing today so touched me. I've been away from my blog for months. I had very serious surgery and simply did not have the energy to get back on the horse. I have been stuggleing with the idea if I should write about my surgery. Am I beeing too open? Should I just brush it away, even though it has had a profound affect on me? But when I read your blog I see where being open with one's life be it what to pack or inner battles. Letting people into your life helps everyone. So I will write about my surgery, unless you think I shouldn't. I live in Southern California and it would be very easy to meet for coffee, lunch or shopping. Oh, going to Napa, Yountville week after next. I certainly will try on a Panama Hat and say you sent me.Sandra Sallinhttp://www.apartfrommyart.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7926693259891960139.post-64810970825862324582014-04-19T02:03:11.308-07:002014-04-19T02:03:11.308-07:00Love this post.
You are brave. And gorgeous xLove this post.<br /><br />You are brave. And gorgeous xFaux Fuchsiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17317677066408030053noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7926693259891960139.post-77138186244358233102014-04-18T11:50:42.937-07:002014-04-18T11:50:42.937-07:00I've read and reread your post over the past w...I've read and reread your post over the past week. Each time, I am gently guided to a deeper level of understanding and appreciation. In relation to writing the blog one wants to read and finding the life one wants to life, I think it's this post that is having the most significant impact on me. But then, I've thought similar thoughts with each lesson. You've taken great care with the sequencing of your topics...each episode in perfect alignment with the greater whole. Thank you Tamera! I am learning so very much!<br /><br />Now, to comment on the personal aspects of your post, I will say that childhood impressions, fears, and insecurities can and do get so intrinsically tangled within our cells that it's only natural that they get carried along with us through adolescence and our adult years. Beliefs that no longer serve us may manifest as shame, after all there can be a deep inner conflict between those long held beliefs and the person we are today. It can be a challenge, unconditional self love; but words, images, connection, beauty...all things found in your blog...are all strong ways of helping heal old wounds. This, I learned from you!Sue @ A Colourful Canvashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15509898677660889672noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7926693259891960139.post-20333260242920290822014-04-15T10:03:51.050-07:002014-04-15T10:03:51.050-07:00What an AMAZING post, with very wise words :) and ...What an AMAZING post, with very wise words :) and your blog is so fab and fun.<br /><br />Check out my new post....How you decorate a small space to look bigger :)<br /><br />Have a great weekend dear<br /><br />LOVE Maria at inredningsvis - <a href="http://inredningsvis.se/gardiner-5-tips-snygga-fonster/" rel="nofollow">inredning</a> it's, Swedish for decor :) maria at inredningsvishttp://inredningsvis.se/textilier/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7926693259891960139.post-24169707800697091732014-04-13T23:39:41.704-07:002014-04-13T23:39:41.704-07:00Tamera love your honesty and soul searching. I als...Tamera love your honesty and soul searching. I also feel like every year I am growing and realizing how I am and why and how I wish I were, if that makes sense. It sounds like you wanted to make everything right as a child. I was also that same kind of child. A pleaser I guess. You really had some tough things to contend with. You are brave and inspiring! You have done so well with your life!!<br />So excited to see you very soon! xoxo Kimkim at northerncalstyle.https://www.blogger.com/profile/12710545630442890027noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7926693259891960139.post-17003752639055874522014-04-13T08:27:29.185-07:002014-04-13T08:27:29.185-07:00Beautiful post...beautiful woman. It is absolutel...Beautiful post...beautiful woman. It is absolutely astonishing how much those little painful events from our pasts create our lives today. In fact, often wreaking havoc. In recent years I've worked to remember as many of these childhood events as I can and forgive them. It really helps create a more peaceful present. It looks like you're doing this same work with dogs (and an overall theme of fear), with your sister (and an overall theme of not being enough) and body image (with your overall theme of shame). Keep thinking, probing and remembering as much as you can on these topics so that you can forgive and release these feelings from your present. I support you in this fully. (I studied Design at UCLA, too, and grew up in Orange County. Even though I live in the mountains now, and wouldn't have it any other way, I absolutely looooooooove seeing all your beachy images!!) With gratitude for your beauty and inspiration!the happy forgiverhttp://www.forgiveandbehappy.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7926693259891960139.post-43747200253844765152014-04-12T20:03:37.199-07:002014-04-12T20:03:37.199-07:00Thank you so much for publishing this series on wr...Thank you so much for publishing this series on writing the blog you want to read. I have found it truly inspirational. I have been on the fence about starting a blog and, partially because I found your series, I have recently started a blog of my own (danaldaggett.wordpress.com). I am planning a post about blogs that I read and I plan to put your blog high on my list (I hope you don't mind!) For so long I thought that I had to find a subject and target an audience. Now I am having a great time writing about what I love and finding that there are people that want to read it. Thanks!!!Danahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05525062662075410145noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7926693259891960139.post-77222630386539875522014-04-11T22:03:09.652-07:002014-04-11T22:03:09.652-07:00Moved beyond words, my friend! I've read quit...Moved beyond words, my friend! I've read quite a few of Brene's books. Her wisdom about our shame opened so many windows in my soul. Your brave sharing is such an inspiration. See you soon. xoxoJenniferhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04723360304687997220noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7926693259891960139.post-45658461848961447352014-04-11T16:46:10.332-07:002014-04-11T16:46:10.332-07:00Then I will THERE with bells on…………maybe not bells...Then I will THERE with bells on…………maybe not bells but baubles for sure!!!!!!<br />XOXOXOLa Contessahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01682902106545680159noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7926693259891960139.post-52872119971509408622014-04-11T14:10:52.948-07:002014-04-11T14:10:52.948-07:00Oh my sweet sweet friend, I believe what I just re...Oh my sweet sweet friend, I believe what I just read are words from a lovely lady who looks at life and others and herself with an OPEN heart, which is a heart that looks outward ( a closed heart looks inward). With this kind of heart you can do and see and understand things you could not otherwise do or see or understand. With this kind of heart you can endure pain, forgive freely, renew strength and then bless and help others in ways surprising even to yourself, which you have done today to so many many women. Trinahttp://www.teatimewithtrina.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7926693259891960139.post-5569253740335408602014-04-11T14:03:34.775-07:002014-04-11T14:03:34.775-07:00Tamera dear-this is a deeply genuine and intimate ...Tamera dear-this is a deeply genuine and intimate post and you are courageous to put your story out there. I admire your honesty and sharing your journey with so many of us who struggle with our own level of confidence or value. You are a gorgeous, glowing woman (inside and out) and I can attest to that as I've met you twice. Your journey provides hope for so many of us who are on similar paths. <br />Thank you for sharing your heart.<br />xx, Heather <br />PS-See you in a few days lovely friend!!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17032908426814046368noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7926693259891960139.post-45533656361091609962014-04-11T13:42:35.621-07:002014-04-11T13:42:35.621-07:00This touched me deeply. Thank you for writing it....This touched me deeply. Thank you for writing it. Lauranoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7926693259891960139.post-91266092384111077072014-04-11T09:57:14.048-07:002014-04-11T09:57:14.048-07:00Holli, thank you for your kind words … I am so sor...Holli, thank you for your kind words … I am so sorry your week has been full of drama … and crisis … hard roads to be sure … I am grateful that my words could help … we are all bound by our journeys in humanness. I hope things become more peaceful for you soon my dear!<br /><br />Sending hugs of love and comfort<br />xoxo<br />TameraTamera Beardsleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00855427513744644731noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7926693259891960139.post-55871013518768140202014-04-11T09:49:06.538-07:002014-04-11T09:49:06.538-07:00La Contessa … thank you for your sweet, sweet comm...La Contessa … thank you for your sweet, sweet comments! My sharing my body issue is really more of a metaphor for old beliefs made in childhood … that still cast shadows today … and my coming to grips with accepting myself today.<br /><br />You are quite right, in my perhaps considering a dog … After writing this i had a dream … where a friend and her dog … were both trying to convince me of the love involved in relationship. I know so many people … that receive such meaning and love from their dogs!<br /><br />My dear … you are also quite right … now is my time to play! I feel at this age I am being offered my lifetime dream of unbridled time for creative pursuits … My heart is ever so grateful for the opportunities!<br /><br />Thank you for your visit dear friend … hope to see you next Tuesday … I have something for You!!<br /><br />xoxo<br />Tamera<br /><br />Tamera Beardsleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00855427513744644731noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7926693259891960139.post-65173435586184129542014-04-11T09:10:44.864-07:002014-04-11T09:10:44.864-07:00Suzanne … thank you so much for sharing your heart...Suzanne … thank you so much for sharing your heart … and your struggles … we are all bound by our journeys in being human. I am finding personal self acceptance of the good … the bad … and the ugly … to be very freeing. I too, can recognize years of choices made … trying to feel 'good enough'. I so appreciate your gift in words my dear. I look forward to learning more about your transformative journey!<br /><br />xoxo<br />TameraTamera Beardsleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00855427513744644731noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7926693259891960139.post-67524405709654146952014-04-11T08:58:55.326-07:002014-04-11T08:58:55.326-07:00I love how honestly that you write and in such a w...I love how honestly that you write and in such a wonderful poetic style. <br />First off I have never once looked at you and thought you were overweight. Women measure ourselves against so many standards and I think by talking bravely like you have here you are giving others an insight into the pain of being human. You are showing us how you are growing, healing and evolving into a magnificent and beautifully articulate and creative soul. Wow Tamera if there was a blog award for excellence you would get my vote. <br />Enjoy your journey and thank you for putting yourself out there as you peel away each layer we get to know the true gem that you have become. hostess of the humble bungalowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06453827257671312902noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7926693259891960139.post-84512643198606910332014-04-11T08:58:13.903-07:002014-04-11T08:58:13.903-07:00Thank you so much Pam! You are always an inspirat...Thank you so much Pam! You are always an inspiration at enjoying this phase of life … your zest is catching!<br /><br />I enjoyed your post on the importance of skincare … I will be improving my regime this weekend with a scheduled appointment!<br /><br />xoxo<br />TameraTamera Beardsleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00855427513744644731noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7926693259891960139.post-28823106108750317822014-04-11T08:43:48.078-07:002014-04-11T08:43:48.078-07:00Oh Beth, I just checked out your Beautiful blog! ...Oh Beth, I just checked out your Beautiful blog! Kudos to you for recreating yourself and recharging your career! I am finding this second phase to be a wonderful time of life … time to pursue my life long passions (I agree with your statement in your bio … of having the same interests as I did before 10 … I was making clothes and designing rooms for my trolls :)) ) I so admire your incredible fashion artistry … I have always had such a fascination with fashion illustration … you are truly gifted! I would be beyond honored, to have you do an illustration of me … what a gift!<br /><br />I am so happy you are enjoying this series! Blogging has been such a life changer to me … I am passionate about sharing it with others! thank you for your dear comment … and I look forward to learning more of your story!<br /><br />xoxo<br />TameraTamera Beardsleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00855427513744644731noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7926693259891960139.post-46287181434252841542014-04-11T08:29:30.618-07:002014-04-11T08:29:30.618-07:00Thank you so much Jill … for your sweet words … th...Thank you so much Jill … for your sweet words … they touch my heart. Self acceptance truly is an ongoing experience … and life journey. I so appreciate you visit and encouragement my dear!<br /><br />xoxo<br />TameraTamera Beardsleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00855427513744644731noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7926693259891960139.post-29150876148865884082014-04-11T08:24:20.322-07:002014-04-11T08:24:20.322-07:00Kerrie, your beautiful words … brought me tears of...Kerrie, your beautiful words … brought me tears of gratitude. I am realizing more and more … the truth that you speak of … that " acceptance is the heart of love". I have found self acceptance to be not only be transforming … in how I view myself … but I have realized … the more I do accept myself … the more accepting and nonjudgemental I have become of others … which is almost life changing in it's self. As I accept my own vulnerabilities and humanity … with love … there is a direct translation to my view and love for others.<br /><br />Connecting with you is a beautiful gift to my soul. Thank you for your visit and the gift of such eloquent words. I look forward to our friendship.<br /><br />xoxo<br />TameraTamera Beardsleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00855427513744644731noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7926693259891960139.post-62239314324807063032014-04-11T08:11:23.476-07:002014-04-11T08:11:23.476-07:00Thank you my dear … for the gift of these beautifu...Thank you my dear … for the gift of these beautiful words … they warm both my heart and soul … You so captured the spirit and intention of this post … with the most eloquent of words! Thank you also for sharing your own struggles … that too is a gift. I do believe in the sharing of our own vulnerabilities … they not only foster deeper connections … but can help shine a light for us all.<br /><br />In much Gratitude<br />TameraTamera Beardsleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00855427513744644731noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7926693259891960139.post-46039903458623605462014-04-11T08:10:16.062-07:002014-04-11T08:10:16.062-07:00Tamera, I cannot thank you enough for sharing your...Tamera, I cannot thank you enough for sharing your authentic self. You are a beautiful woman inside and out and I truly hope you know that. I relate so much to what you've said-here in my 40s and my child self views still have very deep roots, most noticeably in times of surprise or crisis. This week has been full of drama and crisis for me; I needed to hear the words you've so eloquently shared. Isn't it interesting that when you need to hear certain things, they find their way to you? For that, I am thankful. Hollihttp://thisbestlife.com/noreply@blogger.com