tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7926693259891960139.post3200111659824127753..comments2024-03-16T12:36:45.800-07:00Comments on Tamera Beardsley: Self Care During Difficult Times … My Top TipsTamera Beardsleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00855427513744644731noreply@blogger.comBlogger30125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7926693259891960139.post-44253167059106428672020-06-22T06:03:47.103-07:002020-06-22T06:03:47.103-07:00Such a lovely post Tamera some great ideas thank y...Such a lovely post Tamera some great ideas thank you I will be following some of these, I already do some but will be adding others have a great week marie thttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02540364696124357132noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7926693259891960139.post-45449403886433921252014-10-20T20:34:49.365-07:002014-10-20T20:34:49.365-07:00When I hear someone is a fellow empath and has adv...When I hear someone is a fellow empath and has advice- I pay attention! This was a wonderful list and a wonderful reminder to take care of myself while getting through these tough caregiving days. For me, the house is the first thing to go, so re-establishing some order will be my first gift to myself. Thank you for wise words!SEnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7926693259891960139.post-16771726541465500002014-10-12T19:42:47.031-07:002014-10-12T19:42:47.031-07:00Dear Tamera, I can not begin to tell you how many ...Dear Tamera, I can not begin to tell you how many wonderful pearls there are in this beautiful, beautiful post....you are a treasure, and we loved dining and cooking with you this weekend~ xxooAFrench Basketeer.comhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17063218207930318468noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7926693259891960139.post-78822665690394627182014-10-11T20:39:07.111-07:002014-10-11T20:39:07.111-07:00This is all really good advice that works. Enjoyed...This is all really good advice that works. Enjoyed reading it along with your pretty images. Have a great weekend. :)Karen at Home Sweet Hollywoodhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09197897896811872602noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7926693259891960139.post-10444616675285166222014-10-10T12:22:22.377-07:002014-10-10T12:22:22.377-07:00Oh ! you are so cute, amazing and so on.... beauti...Oh ! you are so cute, amazing and so on.... beautiful look.Great photos. Bestkobieta niewidzialnahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04095572700058936230noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7926693259891960139.post-77461639129179501692014-10-09T14:52:32.856-07:002014-10-09T14:52:32.856-07:00Great tips Tamera. Love them. I'm thinking of ...Great tips Tamera. Love them. I'm thinking of you with Ellis moving out and away. I cannot imagine what a big change that is. Take care. Exciting about her engagement...So cute Elliot and Ellis! x Kimkim at northerncalstyle.https://www.blogger.com/profile/12710545630442890027noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7926693259891960139.post-51802004158808297362014-10-09T12:56:24.270-07:002014-10-09T12:56:24.270-07:00Tamera, it doesn't get any better than this. F...Tamera, it doesn't get any better than this. From one 'highly sensitive empath' to another, you just created a classic list. I love this and I've used each one of these tips at different times. Thank you for sharing your grace and wisdom today. It was a beautiful read.Leslie Harrishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06367872267145012395noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7926693259891960139.post-77253332566407987372014-10-09T01:43:01.137-07:002014-10-09T01:43:01.137-07:00This post is amazing & makes sense of my copin...This post is amazing & makes sense of my coping strategys since my husbands incurable cancer diagnosis a few months back @ only 46. I have simplified our lives & home leaving only the much loved items. I've created order to facilitate the calm clean environment we need by purging all unnecessary items. Donating items to charity has brought additional joy. I laughed at your mention of cutting back the garden as I've hard pruned all my treesAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7926693259891960139.post-43951632417161886882014-10-08T23:18:06.511-07:002014-10-08T23:18:06.511-07:00It's funny, isn't it that we can be so kin...It's funny, isn't it that we can be so kind to others during difficult times but forget about ourselves?<br />Thank you for this beautiful post.<br />This little phrase really resonated with me<br />"...so as not to over connect with the present painful situation."<br />I never thought of it like that before.head in the sun https://www.blogger.com/profile/05289594775531378079noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7926693259891960139.post-78412393353632765112014-10-08T21:05:26.628-07:002014-10-08T21:05:26.628-07:00You're like an oracle - always giving me what ...You're like an oracle - always giving me what I need for inspiration. Thank you, Tamera. And oh yes, always red lipstick. :-) LostRoseshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06586462466899344347noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7926693259891960139.post-7740692755364903142014-10-08T10:23:28.585-07:002014-10-08T10:23:28.585-07:00what else I can say when I read your postings....a...what else I can say when I read your postings....a warmhearted, gorgeous, candid, funny, woman. You are what I would call my dearest friendMumbaihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11371965577645396996noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7926693259891960139.post-53113967502063728412014-10-08T04:22:55.793-07:002014-10-08T04:22:55.793-07:00fabulous advices and fabulous attitude, thanks for...fabulous advices and fabulous attitude, thanks for sharing your wisdom, dear lady!!<br />I'm a huge fan of long walks outside and lots of red lipstick and favorite clothes to make sadness littler everyday!<br />besosSeñora Allnuthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01403540346998939207noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7926693259891960139.post-55783703807203191472014-10-08T04:10:53.826-07:002014-10-08T04:10:53.826-07:00I'm with you every step of the way on this pos...I'm with you every step of the way on this post. We can't avoid down days but we can be kind to ourselves and others as we bounce back. Thanks for making this a better day.Luluhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00785948525432152607noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7926693259891960139.post-51937697991773267762014-10-07T21:37:55.599-07:002014-10-07T21:37:55.599-07:00Wishing I could hop across the street and leave so...Wishing I could hop across the street and leave some flowers at your door today! Thank you for doing so, so many times for me! <3Denise Pagettnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7926693259891960139.post-75120219221047926312014-10-07T19:41:29.396-07:002014-10-07T19:41:29.396-07:00All so true and helpful my friend. My gratitude li...All so true and helpful my friend. My gratitude list saves many a hard day and helping others is the best!! Great tips for us all. xoxoJenniferhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04723360304687997220noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7926693259891960139.post-1144622506547756922014-10-07T16:43:29.092-07:002014-10-07T16:43:29.092-07:00Lovely, my friend! It's so much easier to give...Lovely, my friend! It's so much easier to give other's grace that it is to give it to myself.Janahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16279417406114358713noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7926693259891960139.post-88908105280975225952014-10-07T16:42:29.281-07:002014-10-07T16:42:29.281-07:00I love this post. I am going to try to action thes...I love this post. I am going to try to action these things- so many sensible ideas xxxFaux Fuchsiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17317677066408030053noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7926693259891960139.post-12711002994925160842014-10-07T15:49:16.881-07:002014-10-07T15:49:16.881-07:00I have been so fortunate to click open your blog o...I have been so fortunate to click open your blog on the day I need "a bit of Tamera." And there are your pretty photos, your always honest words, your uplifting spirit shinning through. Thank you. Love your blog, love your words, love your spirit! xoxox Barb Barbhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13996555177323656577noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7926693259891960139.post-16856162135090134302014-10-07T15:15:11.436-07:002014-10-07T15:15:11.436-07:00Beautifully written, Tamera, with age wisdom comes...Beautifully written, Tamera, with age wisdom comes and life does not always follow the smoothest path so your wise and thoughtful wisdom is to be admired, thank you so much for sharing. I always feel that the days when you least want to make an effort are always the ones that turn around when you do, dress up, put on that red lipstick and if you can go out of the house, the world somehow feels a little brighter, even if only for a short time. Take care, you are in my thoughts. xJill Jameshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12393826705818799236noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7926693259891960139.post-89137348728484651652014-10-07T13:38:07.980-07:002014-10-07T13:38:07.980-07:00Dear Tamera, this post came at the absolute best t...Dear Tamera, this post came at the absolute best time! I start outpatient rehab tomorrow. Today I visited my Mother and Father and came home and went for a walk...it felt so good, the weather is gorgeous right now. One of my Mother's sayings is that we all feel better with lipstick on and how true! Thank you for being my friend during this time, it means more than you know! You look great, I adore your wrap!<br /><br />xoxo <br />Karen <br />The Arts by Karena Karenahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05206642885608991170noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7926693259891960139.post-34698092710313623702014-10-07T13:05:05.572-07:002014-10-07T13:05:05.572-07:00To all feeling the need for such (good!) advice, i...To all feeling the need for such (good!) advice, if following this advice doesn't help as much as you'd like, or for long enough, do consider seeing a competent psychiatrist. So much depression goes untreated, blighting lives. Truly it is possible to feel better. Not just surviving better, or better but still hypersensitive, but the kind of better in which you feel normal, happy, and you don't have to think about self care because you feel fine, and difficult times are difficult but not overwhelming.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7926693259891960139.post-90303887393453935412014-10-07T12:57:04.515-07:002014-10-07T12:57:04.515-07:00Dearest Trina … you are ever so welcome my dear! ...Dearest Trina … you are ever so welcome my dear! Please know I will never forget when you reached out to me … on a day I needed it so! It is with friends like you … that turn traveling rough waters … into calm seas.<br /><br />Much Love to you.<br /><br />xoxo<br />Tamera Tamera Beardsleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00855427513744644731noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7926693259891960139.post-22772127778677025402014-10-07T12:52:51.879-07:002014-10-07T12:52:51.879-07:00Thank you Pam for your kind words!
xoxoThank you Pam for your kind words!<br /><br />xoxoTamera Beardsleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00855427513744644731noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7926693259891960139.post-85674881281832633092014-10-07T11:55:51.826-07:002014-10-07T11:55:51.826-07:00I'm going through a difficult time right now. ...I'm going through a difficult time right now. Glad for this post. So much good advice. You are beautiful, inside and out. xoxoAnne aka Mimihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06613789485828889599noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7926693259891960139.post-4266128449216891102014-10-07T11:38:36.704-07:002014-10-07T11:38:36.704-07:00As a fellow empath, I am very grateful both to hav...As a fellow empath, I am very grateful both to have read this post and for your courage/honesty in having written it. What is amazing about the internet is that once you hit publish, it stays out there! May this help others too...<br />Namaste,<br />HeatherHeather Robinsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01316279029849503437noreply@blogger.com